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May232008

Excuses are like ____, everybody has one….

Have you ever heard that before? If you haven’t, I’m glad you heard it here first.

I think one of the most undiagnosed medical conditions in the world is ‘excuses-preventus’. (I don’t normally speak Latin, but that’s what 3 cups of coffee in short order will do to you). It is a chronic condition. A 2 phase affliction that begins with some rationalized reason for not doing something presents goals from being met and achievements going undone.

Let’s briefly break this condition down into plain English. Excuses Prevent Us.

So, you are probably getting on my wavelength now: excuses prevent us from our goals and dreams and ultimately lead to an unfulfilled life and disappointment.

In the business world, excuses-preventus is prevalent. Here is how the condition commonly presents itself:

  • “I can’t get any new customers on account of the recession that’s going on,” moans the entrepreneur
  • “I would have done (fill in the blank) except (fill in the blank)” cries the operations manager
  • “You don’t understand, my shop is just in a tough location,” yells the store owner
  • American Idol was on last night,” whines the service professional

I’m sure you have seen these symptoms before. Maybe you are feeling the onset of excuses-preventus. If you are, I suggest reading this months issue of Inc Magazine. There is a great piece in this issue about entrepreneurs that started businesses in “rough” times. These companies made no excuses and forged ahead despite the winds of ‘conventional wisdom’ blowing against them. Here is an excerpt about what Method founders Adam Lowry and Eric Ryan were up against:

—-When they look back on the early days of their start-up, Adam Lowry and Eric Ryan remember that a lot of potential investors laughed at them. The Bay Area, where they were living, was awash in Internet start-ups. Each week in 2000 brought another glitzy launch party or news that the scantest of business plans had attracted venture capital. Even office landlords were demanding equity from their dot-com tenants. Lowry and Ryan, who wanted to start a company to make — of all things — humdrum household products, were decidedly out of step with the times. “You had the sense that there was this real historical thing going on in the region, even if it was not going to end well,” says Ryan. —–

Talk about being immune to excuses-preventus! If you have a hard time not making excuses for being a vegetable in front of the TV, just imagine having sophisticated and wealthy investors laugh at your business plan at the same time you were sailing into the eye of an economic storm.

Anytime I think about excuses-preventus, I remember a great line from the movie The Edge, starring Anthony Hopkins and Alec Baldwin, that I believe sums up how to cure excuses-preventus in short order.

In this movie, Hopkins and Baldwin’s characters are stranded in the Alaskan wilderness and they are being pursued by a hungry grizzly bear. They come to the realization that they won’t be able to outrun or outmaneuver the bear on their journey to safety. They decide that they must kill the bear in order to survive.

Alec Baldwins character (Bob) seriously doubts their ability to kill the bear and survive. To ensure survival, Hopkins’ character (Charles) must motivate Bob.

Charles: “Did you know, in many African tribes, 11 year old boys must kill a lion with a spear in order to prove their manhood.”

Bob: “What’s that got to do with us?”

Charles: “What one man can do, Bob, another man can do.”

Bob: “What?!”

Charles: “Repeat after me: what one man can do, another man can do”

Bob: “What?!”

Charles: “Repeat after me, Bob: what one man can do another man can do!”

Bob (getting the picture now): “What one man can do, another man can do!”

And there it is: what one man (or woman) can do, another man (or woman) can do. Take a dose of that the next time you feel yourself coming down with excuses-preventus. Somebody else is getting things done - so why aren’t you?

May132008

Tuesday Top 5: 5 Reasons to Embrace Criticism

In recent months, I have experienced more outside criticism than at any other point in my life. While I have always known, in the back of my mind, that people will always ’say what they will say’, it has been brought to the forefront of my attention recently as I have been made acutely aware of my critics through a variety of means.

I admit that it has taken some getting used to. Our natural reaction to criticism is to defend ourselves, our positions and our opinions. We want to try to convince other to see the merits in our cases. However, the successful persons reaction to criticism must be non-reaction. It has been told to me by several successful people whom I hold in high regard that: “successful people are immune to criticism.”

Well, in order to build up an immunity you must first have exposure. Therefore, this week I wanted to throw out 5 reasons why one should embrace criticism.

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1. It means you are taking risks and putting yourself out there

You won’t have much personal growth if you aren’t taking risks. Risk taking, whether small or large, forces us outside our comfort zones (which are often outside the comfort zones of most other people, too). When you step out and do things that other people are too scared or too lazy to do, it makes them want to tear at you. I take comfort in the fact that I do things in business and in life that most other people are either too scared, too lazy or too risk averse to do.

The more things you do that others won’t, the more things you will have that others don’t.

2.It means other people are thinking about you when you aren’t around

For me, it is pretty flattering when someone is thinking about me when I am not around them. For someone to criticize you, it means that they are thinking about you in their spare time. You see, they have to come up with their words at some point in time and most of them don’t say the same things to your face that they write anonymously on the internet.

If you don’t have enough going on in your own life that you have to think about someone else (and negative things at that) then you must not be in that good of a place.

3. It means you are hitting above average

If others are openly criticizing you, relax: those at the top of their profession are almost always under attack.

Think about professional athletes. They are almost always under an absolute barrage of critical media attention. They don’t get a break. Think about the executives that run major corporations: they are probably criticized on a daily basis by everyone from their peers to shareholders and especially from employees.

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4. It means you’ve caused someone to think

If you are doing things right and driving as much value as you can, then you should probably be thankful when someone criticizes you because you have pushed all thoughts of Dancing with the Stars, American Idol, and their upcoming weekend activities out of their head and replaced it with you.

This should be good news for anybody. After all, as a business person, you are competing for customer attention and dollars from marketers and information sources from all across the world. If you’ve managed to put your brand, your opinion or your information in front of someone in light of other competing factors then you have just won yourself a big victory.

5. It is a healthy reminder to stay focused

Focus is one of the most important elements of success. The human brain will only allow for so many inputs and outputs in its algorithm before it gets thrown off track. If you are focusing in and keying on the right areas of your business, then criticism should serve to galvanize that focus even more for you. It should confirm that you are on the right track: thinking, talking about and doing the right things.

So, there you have it: another Tuesday Top 5.

I know that neither you (or I) will be able to turn our feelings on and off like a light switch. It takes time and practice. I am willing to be that it took Michael Jordan a couple of seasons in the NBA before he got used to all of the media spotlight and negative comments that other players and the press were making about him. He simply went on to become the greatest player of his generation (at least) and revolutionized the game of professional basketball.

Embrace and become immune to criticism or get eaten up by it. The choice is yours.